Premium membership options for Black couples & singles in the lifestyle
Premium experiences designed exclusively for our community
A dedicated space where Black kink, love, and pleasure are centered. Connect with like-minded individuals who share your experiences and desires.
We prioritize your safety with manual ID checks, required NDAs, consent workshops, and a zero-tolerance policy for boundary violations.
Access high-production private events with capped guest lists, verified attendance, and experiences designed specifically for our community.
Enjoy exclusive pricing on all events, retreats, and workshops, plus special offers from our network of sex-positive brand partners.
Choose the perfect plan for your lifestyle journey
Perfect for those new to the lifestyle
For the fully engaged lifestyle explorer
All memberships include our thorough vetting process to ensure community safety and privacy.
Have questions? Check our FAQ or contact us.
Experiences from our vibrant community
VIP Members • Atlanta
"After trying other swinger sites that didn't represent us, finding BLK Swingers was like coming home. The community is welcoming, the events are top-tier, and we've made genuine connections."
Starter Member • Chicago
"As a single male in the lifestyle, finding accepting spaces can be challenging. BLK Swingers has been refreshingly inclusive while maintaining high standards. Worth every penny."
VIP Members • Houston
"The VIP membership has been a game-changer for us. The early access to events means we never miss out, and the dedicated concierge has made planning our lifestyle travel so much easier."
Everything you need to know about membership
Our vetting process includes ID verification, a brief application about your lifestyle experience and interests, and agreement to our community guidelines. For couples, we verify both partners. This process typically takes 24–48 hours. We prioritize safety and authenticity to maintain a high-quality community.
Yes, you can cancel your membership at any time through your account settings. Your membership benefits will continue until the end of your current billing cycle. We don't offer refunds for partial months, but you're welcome to rejoin at any time.
BLK Swingers is created by and primarily for Black couples and singles in the lifestyle. However, we welcome allies and those who specifically seek to connect with our community in a respectful way. Our focus is on creating a space where Black kink, love, and pleasure are centered.
Starter membership gives you basic access to our community, including forums, messaging (limited), and the ability to RSVP to events. VIP membership adds unlimited messaging, priority event registration with early access, significant discounts on events, access to exclusive VIP-only events, and personalized concierge service for event bookings.
Once you're a member, you can browse our events calendar and request invitations to events you'd like to attend. Some events have limited capacity and may require approval. VIP members get early access to event registration. After approval, you'll receive detailed information about the venue, dress code, and any other specifics for the event.
We take privacy extremely seriously. Your personal information is never shared with third parties. Profile photos and information are only visible to other verified members. All members sign NDAs, and photography is strictly controlled at events. For full details, please review our Privacy Policy.
Become a member today and start connecting with like-minded individuals in a safe, inclusive environment.